What to Wear to a Sangeet Function in a South Asian Wedding?

Attending a South Asian wedding Sangeet for the first time? Feeling excited but not quite sure what to wear? This guide is made for you.

Whether you’re a close friend or a plus-one, navigating Indian fashion doesn’t have to be overwhelming. 

This blog offers an easy-to-follow style and culture guide specifically for the Sangeet function, a night of music, high energy, and celebration. Especially tailored for American guests who are new to Indian traditions, we’ll help you dress appropriately and fabulously for the occasion. But first, let’s understand what the function is about.

What is a Sangeet Function?

The word Sangeet means "music," but it’s far more than just that. The Sangeet is a pre-wedding celebration traditionally hosted by the bride and groom’s families. Though modern weddings often make it a joint affair. It's one of the most anticipated events of the wedding week.

Expect group dance performances from both sides of the family, songs dedicated to the couple, some heartfelt speeches, and lots of emotional moments. Think of it as a musical-meets-family-talent-show with serious sentimental value.

The Vibe

The Sangeet is nothing short of spectacular. Think sparkling lights, loud music, festive décor, and guests dressed to the nines. It’s a high-energy event that mirrors a Bollywood-style party — choreographed routines, celebrity-style entrances, and cameras flashing everywhere. All you need to know before selecting the outfit is that glamour is the baseline.

What to Expect as a Guest at a Sangeet Ceremony

The most important thing while deciding on an outfit is the type of ceremony being hosted and the kind of event it is. Generally, you can expect the following in a sangeet function:

Timing: Usually an evening-to-late-night affair.

Venue: Lavish banquet halls, luxury resorts, or even cruise decks. It depends on the wedding scale.

Activities: It is usually hosted like a show. You can expect a stage, DJ booth, host/emcee, and a structured lineup of performances.

Interaction: You will be asked to dance, or at the very least, cheer loudly. Participation is part of the experience.

Photos: Everywhere. Your outfit will be seen by many. Dress according to the glam.

What to Wear to a Sangeet Function (Women’s Wear Guide)

We have curated a list of outfits you can style depending on your glam, comfort, and venue. Let’s go through them once. 

Outfit Ideas

1. Lehenga Choli (Skirt & Blouse with Dupatta
   
   This is the go-to for a traditional yet glamorous look. A lehenga is a full-length flared skirt paired with a fitted blouse (choli) and a dupatta (scarf). Choose sequins, mirror work, or heavy thread embroidery for maximum visual impact. Perfect for ballroom-style venues or formal resorts.

Try: Zoya Lehenga, a stunning pick with sequin embellishments and an elegant silhouette that’s perfect for ballroom-style venues or grand resorts.

Our you can also try this beautiful Zari Lehanga

2. Saree
   Timeless and elegant. Contemporary pre-draped styles are available for beginners. Fabrics like georgette, shimmer net, or light silks offer both movement and grace. Add a belt for a modern twist or go for a saree gown for extra ease.

Try: SS Kiwi Saree, featuring a breezy modern drape and lightweight shimmer, this is a solid choice if you want to keep it graceful yet trendy.

3. Anarkali Gown or Floor-Length Kurta
   
   Perfect for guests who want a semi-formal or modest look. These offer great movement for dancing and look regal without the hassle of multiple pieces. Ideal for intimate settings or medium-scale banquets.
   
   Try: Nayabi II Bridesmaid Anarkali. This floor-length kurta brings elegance with comfort, ideal for semi-formal Sangeet evenings or intimate venues.
   
   

4. Fusion Outfit
   
   For the bold and fashion-forward. This is a great option for destination weddings or themed events. You can experiment with metallic jackets, asymmetrical cuts, and Indo-Western jumpsuits.

Try: Raha Sharara Set. A vibrant and playful sharara set with contemporary cuts and metallic tones, perfect for younger guests or anyone leaning into modern aesthetics.

Styling Tips

Its not just the outfit, but the way you carry it. A little bit of styling always comes in handy to look like a diva. Check these tips for your first sangeet ceremony. 

• Jewelry: Opt for statement jhumkas (earrings), a maang tikka (forehead ornament), or stacked bangles. No need to overdo it, one strong piece is enough.
  
  
  A Statement Cuff Bracelet 

• Hair: Loose curls, sleek ponytails, or braided updos work well. Adorn your hair with pins, matha pattis, or floral accessories.

• Shoes: Choose mojaris (juttis), wedges, or strappy metallic flats. You’ll need comfort for the dance floor.

• Makeup: Go all glam. Smokey eyes, shimmer lids, dewy foundation, and bold lips are all welcome.

What to Wear to a Sangeet Function (Men’s Wear Guide)

Your outfit should be subtle but scream sangeet. And, if you want to stand apart, we have curated a list for you. 

Outfit Ideas

1. Kurta-Pajama with Nehru Jacket or Vest
   Simple, comfortable, and stylish. Choose silk or brocade fabrics with metallic detailing. Works across venues.
   
   Try: Neel Kurta with Vest, a clean and vibrant set that brings together traditional roots and modern fit. Easy to wear and ideal for medium to large venues.
   
   

2. Sherwani or Indo-Western Jacket Set
   For upscale Sangeet functions, especially in banquet halls or grand venues.

Try: Malik Bandhgala Grey. A sharply tailored look that blends regality with minimalism. The bandhgala cut offers a polished finish suitable for black-tie Indian events.


Or opt for a colour-coordinating dress with your partner

3. Suit with an Indian Twist
   If you want a more understated ethnic look, go with a fusion set.

Try: Ranveer Set - Gold. This embroidered Indo-western suit bridges formal wear with Indian flair. Gold-toned fabric makes it perfect for evening celebrations.

Styling Tips

No matter how great the outfit, it will be elevated when you style it up. For that, keep these tips handy. 

• Accessories: Pocket squares, lapel brooches, or ethnic bracelets. One detail can elevate the entire look.
  

• Footwear: Juttis, embroidered loafers, or sleek formal slip-ons.
  

• Grooming: Use pomade or gel for a tidy hairstyle. Add a watch or minimalist bracelet for a refined finish.

Dressing Based on Glam Level

When you’re invited to a sangeet ceremony, make sure to ask your friends and acquaintances about the theme and venue they have in mind. It will help you to choose your outfits wisely.  

A. High-Glam Sangeet

• Women: For a high-glam event, think full-on festive opulence. Embellished lehengas like the Zoya Lehenga, intricately draped designer sarees, and stylized fusion sets are perfect for making a bold statement under the spotlight.
  
  

• Men: Grand venues call for equally grand attire. Sherwanis such as the Malik Bandhgala or embroidered suits like the Ranveer Set exude elegance and command attention.
  
  

• Fabrics: Choose from velvet, brocade, silk, or satin-blend fabrics. These textures reflect light beautifully and add to the richness of your outfit.
  

• Styling: Don’t hold back here. Professional makeup, styled hair, and bold accessories are all in. It’s the kind of night where dramatic eyeliner or a maang tikka (a forehead ornament) isn’t too much, it’s just right.
  

B. Moderate-Glam

• Women: For a mid-scale venue, you can find a balance between style and subtlety. Consider sarees like the SS Kiwi Saree, elegant anarkalis, or fusion pieces like the Raha Sharara Set that strike the right chord between formal and fun.
  

• Men: Kurtas paired with well-fitted vests, such as the Neel Kurta, or smart Indo-western jackets work well here. Make sure you look polished but not overly extravagant.
  

• Styling: Aim for a balanced look, maybe go bold with either your eyes or your lips, not both. Opt for mid-range jewelry that adds interest without overpowering your look.
  

C. Low-Key or At-Home Sangeet

• Women: When attending a relaxed or at-home Sangeet, comfort and color are your best friends. Lightweight pieces like the Nayabi II Anarkali, printed palazzo sets, or cotton suits keep things easy without losing the festive touch.
  

• Men: Choose simple cotton or silk-blend kurtas, with or without vests. Light embroidery or a pop of color can still make your outfit event-appropriate without being too formal.
  

• Styling: Keep it low-maintenance but celebratory. A pair of colorful jhumkas or a hint of shimmer on the eyes can go a long way in adding charm without going overboard.

Dressing Based on Venue Type

Venue plays a very important role in deciding your outfit. Because you can’t wear a semi-casual outfit to a ballroom, or a glam up look in an intimate setting. 

Indoor Ballroom or Banquet Hall

• These venues usually lean toward a more glamorous vibe, so dressing up is definitely encouraged.

• Think rich fabrics, elevated silhouettes, and a bit of sparkle.

• Formal lehengas, elegant gowns, and structured sarees are all great choices.

• Heels or metallic wedges complete the polished look. You just make sure they’re dance-floor friendly.
  

Outdoor Lawn or Resort Sangeet

• Comfort meets style in an outdoor setting.

• Flowy fabrics like chiffon or georgette work well in breezy or humid weather.

• Avoid heels on grassy lawns. Instead, you can opt for wedges or embellished flats that won’t sink into the ground.

• Lighter colors and breathable styles keep you looking fresh even as the dance floor heats up.

Home or Intimate Venue

• These setups call for semi-casual outfits that still carry a festive touch.

• Printed kurta sets, flared palazzos, or lightweight sarees work perfectly here.

• Think bright colors, subtle embroidery, and accessories that feel celebratory but not over-the-top.

• Keep it easy, breezy, and fun; just like the vibe of the evening.
  

What Not to Wear to a Sangeet

If you are still confused, we say “you-do-you” but avoid these few things at all times. 

• Overly Western Outfits: Avoid plain cocktail dresses, basic suits, or anything that feels too detached from the celebratory mood of an Indian wedding.
  

• Denim or Athleisure: Jeans, shorts, t-shirts, or athletic wear are a no-go — even if the invite says “casual,” festive is always the way to go.
  

• Flip Flops or Sports Shoes: Footwear should be stylish and part of your look — save the sneakers for travel days, not dance nights.
  

• Tight, Itchy, or Heavy Outfits: You'll be dancing, mingling, and posing for photos — your outfit should move with you, not against you.
  

• Loud or Distracting Prints: Avoid prints that clash with traditional patterns or overpower the aesthetic of the event. Think elegant, not eccentric.
  
  

Conclusion

A Sangeet is more than just a party; it’s an experience that blends tradition, celebration, and community. Dressing right allows you to participate confidently and respectfully. Whether you go for a glam lehenga or a sharp bandhgala, the key is comfort, celebration, and cultural appreciation.

Ready to shop for your look? Explore Aayka Fashion NYC’s Sangeet Collection and find something that fits your vibe and the dance floor.